Dating a minor illegal
Without parental approval the relationship would be unlawful.Teen Health FX is guessing that your parents are not aware of this relationship and that you having been keeping a secret from them.Some states, such as California and New York, set an age at which all sexual intercourse is considered statutory rape.For example, a state might set the age of consent at 18.However, this age of consent varies widely from state to state.Statutory rape is a strict liability crime, meaning that the consent of the younger person or mistake about their age is not a defense.
I know the law and I know this is probably frowned upon.
Also if this man is in a position of authority or responsible for your safety such as a teacher, coach, youth group leader, there would also be severe penalties for him abusing his position of authority.
Notice that all of the penalties would be directed at him and not you.
Your comment that your relationship “is probably frowned upon” does not properly describe the serious nature of it.
If this man had any type of sexual contact with you it would be a significant infraction of the law that would involve jail time and requiring him to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life.